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Start Your Own Support Group

You can start a support group yourself. Rule: The group has no “leaders”. All the members own it. Meeting Format (Suggestion) Run a...

A Little Structure Goes a Long Way

The principles in the book can be applied informally, but success is much higher if you formalize it. (My idea): To an extent, perhaps...

Step Nine: Fake It Till You Make It

Making a commitment is like making a resolution. If you don’t stick to it, it’s useless. Don’t fear the mistakes you’ll make along...

Step Eight: Commit To Improvement

Benefits of making a commitment: Liberating to admit your problems By committing publicly, you are more likely to follow through. Public...

Step Seven: Diagnose Your Weakness

Common problems: The struggler: Craves attention. Seeks turmoil and impossible situations. The conflict avoider: Downplays...

Step Six: Learn to Fight

Learn to spar with your team: Sparring is where they can grill you - hold you accountable, but not in a way that causes injury. It is...

Step Five: Create Your Personal Success Wheel

Take a week off in December to reassess everything. Use the Personal Success Wheel or make your own. The elements in the wheel are not...

Step Four: Broaden Your Goal Setting Strategy

Goal setting should be done be a team! Don’t insist on setting all your goals yourself. Let the team help you. His opinion: Goals may be...

Step Three: Practicing The Art of The Long Slow Dinner

Once identified, the lifeline needs to be eased into the process. The benefit of a long, slow dinner is that the clock stops. No rush to...

Step Two: Find Your Lifeline Relationships

Sources of Lifelines Your confidant need not be someone close to you - sometimes those close to you are very poor at it. We have close...

Step One: Activate Your Vision

His view: People spend too much time meticulously recycling vs living up to their talents and abilities. You get only one life. What...

Random Advice

Advice from his mentor: “What do you really want? Define your greatness. Then be convinced of it and start acting like it. Someone will...

4th Mindset: Accountability

Accountability is the 4th mindset. We all make efforts to change (e.g. corporate workshops, trainings, etc), but most efforts don’t have...

3rd Mindset: Candor

Realize that opening yourself to get feedback from others is risk free! They will have their perceptions of you regardless of your...

2nd Mindset: Vulnerability

When introducing yourself, don’t just list accomplishments. Tell a story about your dreams, how you’re getting there, and what...

1st Mindset: Generosity

What do I have to offer others? There are two types of generosity currency: Universal and personal. Universal currency is very...

Who’s Got Your Back

Everyone needs confidants for their professional work. People who care about your success and will not let you fail. Most people have...